BoundandDetermined

8 Works, 12 Followers, 14 Following

AboutWorksFollowingLists

About BoundandDetermined

They/them Note: If you are not cis-gendered, your messages go to the front of the line. As I become more comfortable with my own analog-ness, I find that the cis-hetero-normative nature of the chats and stories is starting to get to me. On the other hand, if you are a TERF, a transphobe, or fetishize trans people, don't bother; I have nothing pleasant to say to you, and all I want from you is your silence. More about me: There are times that I'm excited to jump right in to the bodice ripping, pressed against the wall ravishing, but it seems that increasingly, I'm looking for an honest conversation about...*shrug*...almost anything, really. It seems a bit unconventional to use erotic chat for this, but I've learned about myself and had epiphanies about life in general from conversations with strangers here. That makes me happy. I think as I get older, I'm less satisfied by the random generic lust and more excited by the feeling of connection. *cocks head quizzically* Does that make me a cliche? I'm currently only interested in online, textual play (I like the illusion of human contact, but don't have time or energy for vetting meet-ups). In stories, I tend to be drawn toward the submission and non-consent (as long as there's a better-than-good chance of the victim leaving the scene alive and in one piece). I'm discovering a side benefit (in addition to the fun I have talking to people): I'm learning more about what I enjoy...and what I can play, but does nothing for me. I am definitely a bit of a praise whore (both here and in real life); I love knowing that I'm doing a good job and pleasing my partner. I dislike people who assume they are my mental superior. Also fragile masculinity. Not a fan of that. I'm happy to play submissive, as long as everyone knows we're playing a game; there is absolutely no way I will bend my will to yours. I like playing with an equal--someone who can make me laugh and cum within a short period of time and appreciates the effort I'm willing to go to in order to return the favor. As far as body type: I'm in my late 30's and have a runner's body with a fabulous ass, smooth skin, and full lips that I bite when I get excited. I'm thankful for the 'small breasted' chat room, because it guarantees I have an appreciative audience. If you're looking for a comfortable place to rest your head, my chest is not the place to be. The pictures in my profile are pretty representative. Orientation: All genders welcome. I have strained my tongue on multiple occasions while eating cunt (I tend to become single-minded of purpose and ignore everything but the building tension in my partner) and I love the feel of a woman's body in my arms. This is true especially if there are abundant curves--two skinny people can be fun, but that's a lot of sharp corners. Extra consideration for people who are trans: if there is anything I can do to maximize euphoria and avoid triggering dysphoria (areas of the body you want me to focus on, or ignore, terms you want used or never mentioned), please let me know. I also can enjoy playing with cis-men, but that's a lot more rare. I find that they're easier to figure out, and (as time goes on) I'm less interested. I appreciate private messages that are well thought out, conversations that are (at least moderately) grammatically accurate, and involved roleplay. If there is a scene you're interested in playing, please give me as many details as you can so I can best fit in to your headspace. Reality: I'm happily married, securely queer, and enthusiastically poly with people I like and respect. I very much enjoy flirting and playing with articulate, imaginative people. I like writing, and am always happy to find someone who can inspire me to create and craft poems, or help me to fill in some scenes in my pending semi-autobiographical erotic novel. My memory is decent, but not perfect. I tend to remember positive feelings and forget a lot of the details. If I've talked to you before, please jog my memory or I may embarrass myself. Feel free to send me feedback, give me story prompts, or say hello. == Results from bdsmtest.org == (I like standardized tests...I took the ACT three times and the SAT once...because that's what sounded like a fun Saturday to me) 100% Switch 100% Rope bunny 100% Non-monogamist 93% Primal (Prey) 78% Boy/Girl 75% Pet 70% Dominant 66% Experimentalist 59% Primal (Hunter) 58% Rigger 55% Submissive 52% Vanilla 51% Masochist 49% Brat 42% Daddy/Mommy 42% Master/Mistress 40% Sadist 38% Brat tamer 31% Slave 27% Voyeur 19% Exhibitionist--this...is not quite accurate 17% Degradee 1% Owner 0% Degrader

Gender: Genderqueer

Location: Small town Europe

Statistic

Member since: 8 Years Ago

Updated: Two Years Ago

Poems: 8

Followers: 12

Following: 14

My favorites: 10

My comments: 2

More about me

Age: 40

Weight: Skinny

Height: Average

Dating Status: Attached

Fetishes: kindness, enthusiastic consent, consensual nonconsent, power dynamics, connection, being able to bite. hard., sex as sacred